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Some were absent. Some were foolish. Some were just as\n lost as the children they were raising.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"short-line\">So listen carefully.<\/p>\n <\/section>\n\n <section>\n <h2>Decide Before the Culture Decides for You<\/h2>\n\n <p>\n Do not drift through life doing whatever your friends, social media,\n school, or employers tell you to do.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>Decide what kind of life you want.<\/p>\n\n <div class=\"questions\">\n <p>Do you want a husband?<\/p>\n <p>Do you want children?<\/p>\n <p>Do you want productive land?<\/p>\n <p>Do you want useful skills?<\/p>\n <p>\n Do you want a household that can feed itself and solve problems?\n <\/p>\n <\/div>\n\n <p class=\"command\">\n Decide early, because drifting is still a decision.\n <\/p>\n <\/section>\n\n <section>\n <h2>Choose Your Husband Carefully<\/h2>\n\n <p>\n Do not choose a man because he is attractive, charming, exciting,\n popular, or good at making you feel wanted.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"short-line\">Watch his character.<\/p>\n\n <div class=\"questions\">\n <p>Does he tell the truth?<\/p>\n <p>Does he work?<\/p>\n <p>Can he control himself?<\/p>\n <p>Does he accept responsibility?<\/p>\n <p>Does he respect women, children, and weaker people?<\/p>\n <p>Can he think beyond sex, entertainment, and money?<\/p>\n <p>Can the two of you build something together?<\/p>\n <\/div>\n\n <p>\n A husband affects your body, your peace, your children, your household,\n and your future.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"command\">Choose carefully.<\/p>\n <\/section>\n\n <section>\n <h2>Keep Sex Inside Marriage<\/h2>\n\n <p>\n Do not have sex because you are curious, lonely, pressured, flattered,\n or afraid a man will leave.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"short-line\">Sex is not a harmless game.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n It can bring pregnancy, disease, emotional attachment, abandonment,\n conflict, and consequences that last for years.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>\n Do not give your body to a man who has accepted no responsibility\n for your future.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"command\">\n Choose your husband first. Keep sex inside marriage.\n <\/p>\n <\/section>\n\n <section>\n <h2>Build a Capable Household<\/h2>\n\n <p>Marriage is the beginning of building.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n You and your husband must decide where you will live, how you will\n secure land, how you will feed yourselves, how you will raise your\n children, and what kind of family life you will create.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"short-line\">Secure productive land.<\/p>\n\n <p>It does not need to be impressive.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n It needs to support shelter, food, water, storage, children, repair work,\n and future growth.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"short-line\">Learn to grow food by growing it.<\/p>\n\n <p>Plant something.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n Learn soil, water, pests, seasons, harvesting, storage, and preservation.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"short-line\">Learn useful skills.<\/p>\n\n <p>Cook real food.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n Learn child care, sanitation, first aid, tool use, basic repair,\n and household organization.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>\n You do not need to do everything alone.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"command\">\n But do not confuse helplessness with sophistication.\n <\/p>\n <\/section>\n\n <section>\n <h2>Do Not Let Employment Consume Your Life<\/h2>\n\n <p>A job can be useful.<\/p>\n\n <p>It should not become your whole identity.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n Do not spend your whole adult life strengthening an employer while\n building nothing for your own household.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>\n Work should help strengthen your family, secure land, build skills,\n and create useful holdings.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"command\">\n Judge employment by what it helps you build.\n <\/p>\n <\/section>\n\n <section>\n <h2>Stop Waiting for Your Parents to Become Wise<\/h2>\n\n <p>\n Your parents should have taught you how to judge a man, understand\n sexual pressure, prepare for marriage, manage a household, grow food,\n and protect your future.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>If they failed, admit it.<\/p>\n\n <p>Then stop waiting for them to become wise.<\/p>\n\n <p class=\"command\">Learn what you need to learn.<\/p>\n <\/section>\n\n <section class=\"warning-section\">\n <h2>One Final Warning<\/h2>\n\n <p>\n From puberty onward, your body will push you strongly toward sex.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>Boys will feel the same pressure.<\/p>\n\n <p class=\"hard-line\">That does not mean you should obey it.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n Do not let a young man flatter you, pressure you, tempt you, or fool\n you into sex so that you can keep his affection.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"hard-line\">Do not be stupid.<\/p>\n\n <p>You are the one who gets pregnant.<\/p>\n\n <p>You are the one who carries the child.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n You are the one whose body goes through pregnancy and birth.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>\n You are the one left raising the child when the young man disappears,\n changes his mind, refuses marriage, or proves useless.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>\n You are the one facing disease, fear, grief, lost time,\n financial pressure, and damage to your future.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"hard-line\">The burden falls harder on you.<\/p>\n\n <p class=\"hard-line\">That is unfair.<\/p>\n\n <p class=\"hard-line\">It is still true.<\/p>\n\n <blockquote>\n I will not fuck up my future or the future of my children for some\n foolish young man who offers me nothing except a sweet mouth and\n a pretty face.\n <\/blockquote>\n\n <p>\n If he is not prepared to offer marriage, responsibility, work,\n character, and a serious family vision, he does not get access\n to your body.\n <\/p>\n\n <div class=\"final-commands\">\n <p>Control yourself.<\/p>\n <p>Watch his habits.<\/p>\n <p>Require responsibility.<\/p>\n <p>Choose your husband carefully.<\/p>\n <p>Keep sex inside marriage.<\/p>\n <p>Build your household deliberately.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/section>\n\n <\/article>\n\n <footer class=\"article-footer\">\n Trott Bailey Family\n <\/footer>\n\n <\/main>\n<\/body>\n<\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Advice to a Young Girl Growing Up Under American Media Influence Direct Guidance for Young Women Advice to a Young Girl Growing Up Under American Media Influence How to choose a husband, protect your body, secure land, grow food, and build a capable household American media does not merely fail to guide young women. 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Some were absent. Some were foolish. Some were just as\n lost as the children they were raising.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"short-line\">So listen carefully.<\/p>\n <\/section>\n\n <section>\n <h2>Decide Before the Culture Decides for You<\/h2>\n\n <p>\n Do not drift through life doing whatever your friends, social media,\n school, or employers tell you to do.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>Decide what kind of life you want.<\/p>\n\n <div class=\"questions\">\n <p>Do you want a husband?<\/p>\n <p>Do you want children?<\/p>\n <p>Do you want productive land?<\/p>\n <p>Do you want useful skills?<\/p>\n <p>\n Do you want a household that can feed itself and solve problems?\n <\/p>\n <\/div>\n\n <p class=\"command\">\n Decide early, because drifting is still a decision.\n <\/p>\n <\/section>\n\n <section>\n <h2>Choose Your Husband Carefully<\/h2>\n\n <p>\n Do not choose a man because he is attractive, charming, exciting,\n popular, or good at making you feel wanted.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"short-line\">Watch his character.<\/p>\n\n <div class=\"questions\">\n <p>Does he tell the truth?<\/p>\n <p>Does he work?<\/p>\n <p>Can he control himself?<\/p>\n <p>Does he accept responsibility?<\/p>\n <p>Does he respect women, children, and weaker people?<\/p>\n <p>Can he think beyond sex, entertainment, and money?<\/p>\n <p>Can the two of you build something together?<\/p>\n <\/div>\n\n <p>\n A husband affects your body, your peace, your children, your household,\n and your future.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"command\">Choose carefully.<\/p>\n <\/section>\n\n <section>\n <h2>Keep Sex Inside Marriage<\/h2>\n\n <p>\n Do not have sex because you are curious, lonely, pressured, flattered,\n or afraid a man will leave.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"short-line\">Sex is not a harmless game.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n It can bring pregnancy, disease, emotional attachment, abandonment,\n conflict, and consequences that last for years.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>\n Do not give your body to a man who has accepted no responsibility\n for your future.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"command\">\n Choose your husband first. Keep sex inside marriage.\n <\/p>\n <\/section>\n\n <section>\n <h2>Build a Capable Household<\/h2>\n\n <p>Marriage is the beginning of building.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n You and your husband must decide where you will live, how you will\n secure land, how you will feed yourselves, how you will raise your\n children, and what kind of family life you will create.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"short-line\">Secure productive land.<\/p>\n\n <p>It does not need to be impressive.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n It needs to support shelter, food, water, storage, children, repair work,\n and future growth.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"short-line\">Learn to grow food by growing it.<\/p>\n\n <p>Plant something.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n Learn soil, water, pests, seasons, harvesting, storage, and preservation.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"short-line\">Learn useful skills.<\/p>\n\n <p>Cook real food.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n Learn child care, sanitation, first aid, tool use, basic repair,\n and household organization.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>\n You do not need to do everything alone.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"command\">\n But do not confuse helplessness with sophistication.\n <\/p>\n <\/section>\n\n <section>\n <h2>Do Not Let Employment Consume Your Life<\/h2>\n\n <p>A job can be useful.<\/p>\n\n <p>It should not become your whole identity.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n Do not spend your whole adult life strengthening an employer while\n building nothing for your own household.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>\n Work should help strengthen your family, secure land, build skills,\n and create useful holdings.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"command\">\n Judge employment by what it helps you build.\n <\/p>\n <\/section>\n\n <section>\n <h2>Stop Waiting for Your Parents to Become Wise<\/h2>\n\n <p>\n Your parents should have taught you how to judge a man, understand\n sexual pressure, prepare for marriage, manage a household, grow food,\n and protect your future.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>If they failed, admit it.<\/p>\n\n <p>Then stop waiting for them to become wise.<\/p>\n\n <p class=\"command\">Learn what you need to learn.<\/p>\n <\/section>\n\n <section class=\"warning-section\">\n <h2>One Final Warning<\/h2>\n\n <p>\n From puberty onward, your body will push you strongly toward sex.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>Boys will feel the same pressure.<\/p>\n\n <p class=\"hard-line\">That does not mean you should obey it.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n Do not let a young man flatter you, pressure you, tempt you, or fool\n you into sex so that you can keep his affection.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"hard-line\">Do not be stupid.<\/p>\n\n <p>You are the one who gets pregnant.<\/p>\n\n <p>You are the one who carries the child.<\/p>\n\n <p>\n You are the one whose body goes through pregnancy and birth.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>\n You are the one left raising the child when the young man disappears,\n changes his mind, refuses marriage, or proves useless.\n <\/p>\n\n <p>\n You are the one facing disease, fear, grief, lost time,\n financial pressure, and damage to your future.\n <\/p>\n\n <p class=\"hard-line\">The burden falls harder on you.<\/p>\n\n <p class=\"hard-line\">That is unfair.<\/p>\n\n <p class=\"hard-line\">It is still true.<\/p>\n\n <blockquote>\n I will not fuck up my future or the future of my children for some\n foolish young man who offers me nothing except a sweet mouth and\n a pretty face.\n <\/blockquote>\n\n <p>\n If he is not prepared to offer marriage, responsibility, work,\n character, and a serious family vision, he does not get access\n to your body.\n <\/p>\n\n <div class=\"final-commands\">\n <p>Control yourself.<\/p>\n <p>Watch his habits.<\/p>\n <p>Require responsibility.<\/p>\n <p>Choose your husband carefully.<\/p>\n <p>Keep sex inside marriage.<\/p>\n <p>Build your household deliberately.<\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/section>\n\n <\/article>\n\n <footer class=\"article-footer\">\n Trott Bailey Family\n <\/footer>\n\n <\/main>\n<\/body>\n<\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Advice to a Young Girl Growing Up Under American Media Influence Direct Guidance for Young Women Advice to a Young Girl Growing Up Under American Media Influence How to choose a husband, protect your body, secure land, grow food, and build a capable household American media does not merely fail to guide young women. 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